Compulsory schooling – what does that mean for families?

By Leoni Zilke

October 23, 2025

Educational freedom, homeschooling, compulsory schooling

A Historical Look

Compulsory education in Germany has a long history. Since the beginning of the 20th century, it has been legally required for children to attend a state-recognized school. The idea was to create equal opportunities for all children and prevent illiteracy.

Often, there is no distinction made between compulsory schooling and compulsory education. In many countries, only compulsory education applies. There, the crucial factor is that children learn—not where or how. In Germany, on the other hand, attending school is legally mandated.

The Family's Perspective

Many parents feel that compulsory schooling is restrictive. They want to take responsibility for their children's education but are met with firm boundaries.

Parents are their children's first and most important role models. They decide on nutrition, health, and matters of faith. However, in Germany, the state imposes a uniform model for education. For some families, this does not align with their beliefs.

Anyone considering homeschooling in Germany quickly experiences pressure. Fines, coercive measures, and contact with authorities are among the consequences. Many parents feel disempowered by this and look for ways to foster their children freely nonetheless.

Education is more than instruction.

Children don't just learn in classrooms. They discover the world through play, conversation, and everyday life. Homeschooling offers opportunities here to focus more on the child's learning.

Every child has their own learning pace. Some need time, others want to move faster. In the rigid school system, there's often little room for this. Parents who homeschool their children often notice that their children can learn more motivated and relaxed.

For many families, faith also plays a central role. They want education to impart not only knowledge but also values. Under compulsory schooling, it is difficult to consistently live these values in everyday life.

Challenges and Opportunities

Homeschooling is not an easy path. Parents take on a lot of responsibility, must create structure, and organize learning materials. However, they also experience closeness, freedom, and independence.

In Deutschland bleibt dieser Weg leider bisher verschlossen. Familien, die sich für Homeschooling entscheiden, bewegen sich schnell im Konflikt mit Behörden. Das macht deutlich, wie streng der Schulzwang ist und wie wenig Flexibilität er zulässt. Der Blick auf internationale Erfahrungen zeigt jedoch, dass Homeschooling funktionieren kann.

In den USA beispielsweise ist Homeschooling weit verbreitet. In Skandinavien ist es oft mit klaren Vorgaben verbunden. In der Schweiz hängt es vom Kanton ab. Diese Vielfalt zeigt: Der deutsche Schulzwang ist kein Naturgesetz, sondern eine bewusste Entscheidung.

These options are available despite compulsory schooling

Even though homeschooling is legally difficult in Germany, parents can give their children valuable learning impulses in everyday life – completely without conflict with authorities. Learning doesn't just happen at a desk, but in the middle of life:

Using everyday life as a place of learning 

When cooking, children can measure ingredients, read recipes, and understand what fractions and units mean. When shopping, they learn to compare prices, plan budgets, and take responsibility. This makes math suddenly tangible—and learning happens almost by itself.

Implement creative projects

Crafting, handiwork, or making music cultivate patience, planning, and expressiveness. A small wooden construction, a self-painted poster, or a song practiced together – all of these strengthen self-confidence and promote practical intelligence. Parents can consciously create periods of time in which children are allowed to implement their ideas.

Discover Nature and the Environment

Being outdoors is the best school: Identifying plants on a walk, observing the night sky, or watching the weather. This sharpens perception and wonder at God's creation. A small garden corner or a nature journal can turn this into a long-term learning project.

Conversations and reading in everyday family life 

Reading stories, Bible texts, or non-fiction books together opens up opportunities for conversation. Children learn to express their thoughts and ask questions. Parents can build upon these discussions, impart values, and lovingly guide their children's thinking.

Conclusion 

Compulsory schooling has shaped the German education system for over a hundred years. However, for many families, it is more of a burden than a protection. It restricts responsibility and freedom and makes homeschooling impossible.

However, education also happens outside of schools, namely wherever children are allowed to discover, experiment, and ask questions. Those who consciously design everyday life as a learning space are already living what homeschooling is all about at its core: genuine interest, shared learning, and individual support.

If you'd like to learn more about how families homeschool their children outside of Germany, or what opportunities THS offers to make Christian learning flexible, you're welcome to join our next info meeting. There, you can ask all your questions, and we'll show you what education at home can look like in practice.

About the author

Leoni has been living in Paraguay with her family since 2016. She knows from personal experience how challenging—but also how rewarding—a new start abroad can be. A new language, a new culture, a new school: she has gone through all of that herself.

Even though she was never part of a homeschooling family, she follows the topic with interest today – perhaps precisely because of that. In her writings, she wants to share what she herself would have needed: honest insights, helpful thoughts, and encouragement for other families venturing abroad.

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